COMPETITIVE EXAM

Whenever we hear about the competitive exam, people have this opinion that government jobs are the best or renounced place to work and start telling us the benefits of it like a good salary, government house to live in, house help and many other perks.
When an aspirant prepares for any competitive exam like UPSC, Judiciary, CAT, CLAT and etc. Why does no one ask the aspirants about their mental health?
If they don’t qualify the exams people around them start questioning their caliber and compare them with others or compare with other aspirants of competitive exams.
While questioning we forget that today’s and previous generations have different patterns and today’s competition has increased.
Every aspirant, those who are preparing for any government jobs it’s their dream to clear it….
Every aspirant (and their family members) need to understand that it takes time and you will face failures and difficulties in your journey but failure is the best teacher to make you realise your flaws and guide you towards the correct path.
The journey between preparation and clearing the exams – an aspirant goes through a lot mentally and feels depressed, frustrated, irritated and they think that if they don’t clear the exam people will call them failure. In all these things aspirants need the support and their family to give time and believe in his or her child’s capabilities.
In this journey of preparation aspirants see a remarkable change in themselves by making them more patient and resilient in order to enhance their professional craft.
Do not take exams as a burden. The biggest exam is life which can be unpredictable to us anytime. So, enjoy the process of learning and always remember failure is a stepping stone to success.

BY CHIKITA MALHOTRA.